Oh God I don’t want to lose my marriage, I want it to be stronger. I don’t know that my husband wants to do the work to make it stronger because it means he will have to open himself to me and to God’s healing in a way that he’s resisted for a long time. Maybe I’m wrong, but he doesn’t talk about his emotions or his faith except to talk about obedience to God. It is so foreign to how I am spiritually and emotionally. It’s become an obstacle in our marriage and I don’t know what to do.